My Current Partner Is Sharing My Intimate Images
Consent to a relationship does not include consent to sharing your intimate images. NCII statutes apply to current partners as well as ex-partners.
Most people associate non-consensual intimate image sharing with ex-partners, but NCII statutes apply equally to current partners who share intimate images without consent. Intimacy within a relationship does not create permission to distribute private images. If your current partner has shared or is sharing your images without your knowledge and consent, they are violating both criminal NCII statutes.
This situation often involves additional complexity around domestic dynamics. If you are concerned about your safety or the possibility of retaliation, contact a domestic violence hotline, the National Domestic Violence Hotline is available at 1-800-799-7233, before taking any other action. Victim advocates can help you navigate the process safely.
ScanErase finds where your images are online while you decide how to address the relationship and the next steps. The process is confidential and does not require your partner to know you have sought help. Your exposure report can support any actions you choose to pursue.
What to do right now
- Assess your safety firstIf you are concerned about your safety, contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 before taking other steps.
- Run a biometric scan confidentiallyScanErase identifies where your images are being shared without your partner knowing you have initiated the process.
- Get your exposure reportOnce you complete the scan, unlock your full results to see where your images are hosted.
- Contact a victim advocateLocal domestic violence organizations provide confidential support and can help you understand your options including protective orders.
- Consider a criminal complaintYour exposure report can help inform your next steps. NCII violations are criminal offenses in most US states.
Common questions
I am still in the relationship. Will pursuing this alert my partner?
ScanErase's process is confidential. We do not contact your partner. You control when and whether to involve law enforcement.
My partner says the images were shared accidentally. Is that a defense?
Most NCII statutes require knowledge or recklessness, not specific intent to harm. Accidentally sharing intimate images on a public platform would be extremely unusual. An attorney can advise on how your state's statute applies to your specific situation.
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