Why this happens

Post breakup distribution typically occurs within the first 90 days after the relationship ends. The distribution is rarely random and often involves coordinated posting across multiple platforms.

Many ex partners attach identifying information including the victim's name, employer, school, or contact details. This identifying context creates additional civil claims beyond the NCII statutes.

Legal framework in New Zealand

Harmful Digital Communications Act 2015, sections 22 (causing harm by posting digital communication) and 22A (posting intimate visual recording without consent). Section 22A: up to 3 years imprisonment for individuals. Section 22 general offence: up to 2 years.

New Zealand's HDCA created a hybrid regime: Netsafe as the statutory triage agency, the District Court as the order making body, and a specific intimate image offence at s.22A added in 2022 carrying up to 3 years.

Evidence to preserve

Do not: Do not communicate with the ex partner during the active distribution period. Communications can be edited and selectively shared to suggest reconciliation or consent. All communication should be through counsel.

Five step removal process

  1. 1

    Preserve all evidence first

    Full page screenshot of every URL where the content appears, including any attached identifying information. The full communication history with the ex partner, especially any threats made before the distribution.

  2. 2

    File the Harmful Digital Communications Act 2015 criminal complaint

    Report to local police or the national cybercrime unit. Netsafe can assist.

  3. 3

    Submit an erasure request under Privacy Act 2020 (right to access and correct, plus information privacy principle 5)

    Each major platform has a designated data protection contact. The request must cite the legal basis and identify the URLs. The platform has 30 days to respond. Privacy Commissioner accepts complaints for non compliance.

  4. 4

    Run a biometric scan to find every additional copy

    Content posted to one platform is rarely confined to one platform. ScanErase identifies every current hosting location in a single scan, including mirror copies and AI generated variants.

  5. 5

    File TAKE IT DOWN Act notices for covered platforms

    Use your scan report to file the federal 48 hour notice yourself, in parallel with your domestic rights. The two regimes are cumulative, not exclusive.

Statutory citations to include in your complaint

Frequently asked questions

Is revenge after breakup a crime in New Zealand?

Yes. Harmful Digital Communications Act 2015, sections 22 (causing harm by posting digital communication) and 22A (posting intimate visual recording without consent) criminalises this conduct. Section 22A: up to 3 years imprisonment for individuals. Section 22 general offence: up to 2 years.

What evidence should a New Zealand victim of revenge after breakup preserve?

Full page screenshot of every URL where the content appears, including any attached identifying information. The full communication history with the ex partner, especially any threats made before the distribution. The dates of the breakup and the first appearance of the content online. Any witnesses to the relationship who can attest to the original consent context for the images.

Does Privacy Act 2020 (right to access and correct, apply to this scenario?

Yes. Privacy Act 2020 (right to access and correct, plus information privacy principle 5) gives the victim a direct erasure right against any platform processing the imagery. Privacy Commissioner enforces non compliance.

What support is available in New Zealand for revenge after breakup?

Netsafe provides direct support to victims and can assist with both the criminal complaint and the platform removal process. Contact at https://www.netsafe.org.nz.

Can a New Zealand victim also file a US TAKE IT DOWN Act notice?

Yes when the hosting platform is subject to US jurisdiction. The 48 hour federal removal obligation runs in parallel with rights under Harmful Digital Communications Act 2015 and Privacy Act 2020 (right to access and correct, plus information privacy principle 5).