Standard dating safety advice, meeting in a public place, telling someone your plans, arranging your own transportation, remains correct and important. It addresses safety at the meeting itself. It does not address a separate risk: that the person you have been messaging for weeks is using someone else's identity entirely. That risk is best addressed earlier, before significant emotional or financial investment, with an independent check on the photos themselves.

What to do

  1. Video call before meeting in personConfirms the person behind the messages looks and sounds consistent with their profile.
  2. Run a biometric face scan on their profile photoChecks whether the same face appears anywhere else on the web across 200+ platforms, under any other name.
  3. Review the free preview, then unlock for $15 if neededSee how many matches were found before deciding whether to pay for the full report.
  4. Meet in a public place for the first dateStandard safety practice regardless of what the earlier checks showed.
  5. Tell a friend your plans and arrange your own transportationKeeps you in control of leaving the date at any point.